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Judith A. Marty, Esq. earned a B.A. with distinction in sociology and Spanish from
the University of Minnesota. Her lifetime work in human relations and intercultural communication began in the 1970’s
performing outreach work for migrant workers. She counseled adolescents, including sex offenders, in a long-term treatment
program while attending law school. She utilizes her knowledge of self-esteem building in her law practice.
She established Divorce Seminars and Information in 1988 as a resource to address the issues that the legal system ignores
such as financial planning and self-esteem building. Her goal is to help families make a healthy transition through the divorce
process. Her seminars encourage growth and self-confidence, integrating intellectual understanding with positive conditioning
and relationship enhancement. She is the author of Divorce in Minnesota For Non-Lawyers, A Guide to the Legal System,
1991, 1994, 1996, 2001, The 5 Colors of Divorce , 2000, and Lift High Your Colors to the Sky!A Divorce Workbook
for Healthy Transitions, 2002. Her Searching for Courtship workshops are a popular and fun way to find a good
husband. See: http://www.athenainstitute.com/sfcextras/sfcleaders/judithmarty.html Her interest in protecting children led her to work for the United Nations High Commissioner
for Refugees adjudicating cases for unaccompanied minors in refugee camps for two years in Hong Kong. Upon return
to the United States, she supervised and trained Asylum Officers for the U.S. Department of Justice for six years. Today,
she represents asylum seekers, specializing in children’s and gender issues. She has traveled throughout Asia and Central
America researching human rights conditions. She has been a volunteer legal advisor for the Coalition Against Slavery and
Trafficking in Los Angeles and works closely with the U.S. Attorney’s Office to eliminate corruption and immigrant abuses.
Proceeds from her "Child Slaves and U.S. Asylum and Refugee Policy” (2000) article are used for human
rights projects. Her “Child Lures” presentation teaches what every parent and child should know about preventing
sexual abuse and abduction. She is a certified family and employment mediator. She became a
collaborative law attorney because most legal problems stem from poor communication. She believes in getting to the root of
the problem and creating lasting solutions. Since a life without problems is not possible, she teaches a “problem-solving
methodology” that can be used throughout one’s lifetime. "Life is filled
with opportunity and happiness. We just have to open our eyes and hearts to have it all."

TABLE OF CONTENTS
DEDICATION
PREFACE
INTRODUCTION
WORKBOOK PROGRAM
CHAPTER ONE
The 5 Colors of Divorce Understanding the Emotional Stages of Divorce
CHAPTER
TWO What is Self-Esteem?
What is Self-Dislike?
Self-Esteem Evaluation
CHAPTER THREE Journaling Exercises
CHAPTER FOUR Parenting
Developmental Needs of Children
Parenting Plans
Custody
How to Select a Psychologist
Visitation Rights
Child Support
Calculating Income in Self-Employed Situations
On the Farm
When Your Spouse is an Employee
CHAPTER FIVE Domestic Violence
The Three-Phase Theory of Family Violence Get Help To Break the Cycle of Violence
CHAPTER SIX Glossary of Legal Terms
CHAPTER SEVEN The Financial Consequences of Divorce
Providing Information to Your Attorney
Where to Look For Hidden Assets
Monthly Budget
The Importance of Credit
What Do Lenders Look at When They Analyze Credit Applications?
Women and Credit
Steps to Take When Facing a Financial Crisis
Your Rights Against Unfair Debt Collections Practices Income Tax Consequences
CHAPTER EIGHT Mediation vs. The Adversary System
G M Divorce Awareness Scale
How to Choose A Mediator
CHAPTER NINE How To Choose an Attorney
CONCLUSION
APPENDIX
SELF-ESTEEM EVALUATION SCORING
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
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